Just say No
Disclaimer: This post contains Amazon Affiliate Links I thought of this post around the time, I wrote Respect my Choices but wanted to space them out a bit. I been single, for most of my life. I started dating online in 1998, where I met my ex-hubs and started my first relationship. I knew the relationship had red flags but also didn't want to be bothered with dating anyone else. I never been big on dating. The rules are complicated and I do not understand. I started helping, a friend, with a Facebook fan page for his advice column. It started on his personal page and I was noticing he had good engagement on his page. Just based on the questions he gets (and the comments) made me think of this post too. You go to dating sites. You read the about me section to determine if you are a match. You look at photos for attractiveness and search for clues to determine compatibility. If you determine you and he/she/they/them are not a match, you swipe left and move on--well you